Although women don’t place as much importance on looks as men do, they definitely place importance on what you wear. Women know a lost more about clothes than any guy should expect to, so don’t assume that she won’t notice something or will let it slide. This applies to all women, including escorts in my home town of San Diego, California.
You should always dress for the occasion. If you turn up under-dressed, it could be very embarrassing for both you and your date. If you want to impress women, you should always wear clean and well-kept clothes. Women will always notice what you wear, even if they don’t say anything about it. If you show some style, it will show her that you care about your appearance.
If you’re employing the services of an escort, why should you care how you look or dress? Because you want her to get a favorable impression of you, so she, how shall I say it, gives you her best effort. Additionally, if you intend to call the same escort for future dates, you want her to think positively of you so she’s quick to take your call, and certain to look forward to your company.
Have you ever noticed how gay men seem to attract women to them? It’s partly to do with their lifestyle, but it’s also to do with the fact that most of them are really good looking. Now, like us straight guys, they’re not all born with good looks, but they all have one thing in common. They are the gods of personal grooming, and they know how to dress.
They know what they need to do to look good. Because men are superficial, gay men need to make an effort to attract other men. But at the same time, they also attract women. Make note of that and learn from it. I did just that. And every time I make a call to SD Babes, one of my preferred San Diego escort services, I’m already showered, shaved, and smartly dressed.
The way you dress actually has an affect on the way you feel. Before any social meeting, you should stop to check yourself in a mirror. Think: am I clean? Do I smell good? Am I styled? Am I polished? This is especially important if you’re in Southern California, where people are very into fashion, style and looks in general.
Treat every meeting with women as if you are the leading role in a movie. Do you fit the role? When we are dressed well and feel that we fit the part, we feel at ease and confident with our bodies and ourselves. Take pride in your appearance and she will notice.
I’ve seen too many guys whose haphazard approach to grooming is not only noticeable; it’s revolting. They often have the attitude that it’s the woman’s role to get herself done up for the man. Look, you’re not going to compromise your masculinity by paying attention to how you look. Women like men who exude money, power, and status, and the best way to do that is by paying attention to what you wear.
Given the availability of men’s grooming products on the market now, there really is no excuse for men to turn up for a date with an escort looking less than perfect. Sure, if you’re into prostitutes or streetwalkers, none of that really matters. But if you’re in to high-class women, it really does make a difference. A lot of companies have exclusive men’s lines designed specifically for men’s skin. You may think that a good old bar of soap is good enough, but don’t judge moisturizers and toners until you try them. Have a look the next time you are at the store. You will be surprised at how many products are available.
Next, do a self-assessment. Stand in front of the mirror and offer yourself a critical appraisal. Start at the very top. When did you last have your hair cut? When is the last time you changed your hairstyle? What about your hair color? Consider every detail. A change of hair style and color could completely transform your look.
Have a look through books and magazines. Find a hair style that suits you and the shape of your face. Don’t be afraid to ask for advice. Find something you like and take a copy of it to your stylist. Ask them what they can do. You may need to change your stylist if you’re still going to the same barber you had when you were a kid. Go ahead an solicit advise from women, including escorts.
Don’t be afraid to put a little color in your hair. It can really liven things up, but remember to have it done by the stylist. A few salon highlights can make girls weak at the knees, but a bad home dye job can mean you’ll be wearing a cap for the next few months. Here in sunny San Diego you can lighten your hair a little simply by getting outside in the sun’s rays.
Move a little further down now. Do you have sideburns? If so, make sure you are aware of current styles. Read magazines and look at the photos. If most of the models and celebrities have short sideburns, and yours look more like lamb chops, you need to seriously rethink their length. Also, keep them trimmed close. When they get woolly, you will start to look a little foolish. Invest in a beard trimmer. They are relatively cheap, and it’s an easy way to ensure you always look your best.
Take a close look at your skin. When was the last time you used a moisturizer? Men’s skin, like women’s, needs hydration. If you don’t, it can get flaky or blotchy. All of my friends use moisturizer now, and they all swear by it. Best of all, women do notice.
Take a good look at the clothes you are wearing. They should be flattering to your body shape and have some sense of style. You don’t have to buy all of your clothes from Ralph Lauren or Hugo Boss, but you should have clothes that are clean and fit you nicely.
The key to having style is to choose clothes that are current, popular, within your budget. Style can’t be quickly taught, though many escorts will be quick to give you pointers. It is something that you have to develop. The best way to do this is by checking out some of the latest men’s magazines and taking note of the fashion pages.
Whatever your style, it should reflect your lifestyle and make you feel comfortable. For some, it’s a cool pair of jeans and a shirt, and for some it’s an expensive suit. Find your basic style, and work with that.
Once you have identified what style you are most comfortable with, take a female friend or escort with you for advice and go shopping. Whatever look you go for, your clothes need to be in good condition. Women notice fraying cuffs and stretched necklines. The wonderful thing about taking female friends shopping is that they can offer you advice and honesty that no male friend ever will.
The key to being a snappy dresser is to watch what other people are wearing on the street. Read magazines and watch television. If you see something you like, make a note of it, and see if you can find something like it when you go shopping for clothes. If you’re really into it, you can even attend a San Diego fashion event.
If you struggle to get clothes that fit, consider getting a tailor to hem your pants and take your shirts in. It’s surprising what a difference a little tailoring can make, and it’s really quite reasonable considering the cost of the clothes.
Always take the time to iron your clothes before you go out. Even if you are a bachelor, it doesn’t mean you have to look like a slob.
Women notice details like watches, belts, and most importantly, shoes. Make sure your shoes are clean and shiny. Not only does it look better, it will help your shoes last longer. Make sure that the style of watch you’ve chosen is masculine, streamlined, and suits your personality. It doesn’t have to be a Rolex, but a carefully selected watch can make a real difference.
Once you have your look handled, how about the smell? Aftershave can be something that is easily overlooked by men. I believe aftershaves are the one thing you shouldn’t be cheap with. When you consider the length of time it takes to use a bottle, it really is a very good value — especially if it is a quality product. Again, take a female friend to help you choose a good fragrance.
After all this, you should be ready to dazzle your favorite escort in San Diego. If your date sees the effort you have gone too, she will very likely be impressed. As well as that, you will look and feel great, and you will exude this enthusiasm and confidence to those around you.
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